☝☝☝☝☝☝every one will play a role...but not every player will play the same role.
This should be in every parent/player contract - possibly even before the "24 hour" rule - and with it's own acknowledgement / signature line.
☝☝☝☝☝☝every one will play a role...but not every player will play the same role.
How would I like the coach to respond? I would like to hear "I should not have done that. Players can't develop while they are sitting on the bench, so I should try to get everyone into the game. If I do that, then the team and all of the players will be stronger in the long run. From now on I will make every effort to get all of the players into the game." How would the coach probably respond? "I am the coach and I make the decisions based on what gives the team the best chance to win." How would I respond to that expected answer? "I'm sure my money will be better spent joining a team that will help my daughter be a better player and actually... play."You as a parent approach the coach after first bracket game (won) and question the coaching decision to bat 9 with DP/FLEX. Your daughter was the FLEX. How would you like/appreciate/expect the coach to respond?
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I think the OP needs to ask him or herself if they are ok with playing on a team that puts value on doing well and or winning tournaments.
Because as many/most have pointed out, a coach is going to play the best 9 during bracket play in the vast majority of cases.
Even though the coach had the option to bat 9 i'm sure he felt batting 9 gave them their best chance to win. Like others have pointed out, the difference in batting 9 vs 10 could mean the the hottest hitters getting that one last AB that could make the difference.
TB is not rec. it's as simple as that. Nobody is guaranteed playing time although most coaches try and get everyone into the action during a tournament in most cases.
When I had nobody to hit me balls I used to do this at the local LL field against the cement dugout backing..the fact that the ground was rocks/gravel made it that more challengingGo to a racquetball court (most parks have them). Throw ball against the wall and field the ball, throw the ball, field the ball, throw the ball, field the ball. Short hops, long hops. Throw it against the short wall and field the ball and practice side arm dish, then field the ball, practice the pivot, throw, field. In 20 minutes she will field 200 gbs. She can throw herself 50 backhands in 5 minutes. If she struggles with the backhands, there is a video for that too.
I didn't read the whole thread. I got to page 2 and Eric said it all. His paraphrased advice "Have your DD get UNDENIABLY BETTER than the other players/hitters."
Have DD watch videos (Mike Candrea are old school but they are very informative) on how to field her position. Practice more. Hit more. Get 2 or 3 dimpled pitching machine balls. Go to a racquetball court (most parks have them). Throw ball against the wall and field the ball, throw the ball, field the ball, throw the ball, field the ball. Short hops, long hops. Throw it against the short wall and field the ball and practice side arm dish, then field the ball, practice the pivot, throw, field. In 20 minutes she will field 200 gbs. She can throw herself 50 backhands in 5 minutes. If she struggles with the backhands, there is a video for that too.
Eric, I think there is a practice tee shirt or team motto/slogan idea in there. BE UNDENIABLY BETTER on the back and I"M GETTING UNDENIABLY BETTER on the front. Calling my tee shirt guy today. LOL
How would I like the coach to respond? I would like to hear "I should not have done that. Players can't develop while they are sitting on the bench, so I should try to get everyone into the game. If I do that, then the team and all of the players will be stronger in the long run. From now on I will make every effort to get all of the players into the game." How would the coach probably respond? "I am the coach and I make the decisions based on what gives the team the best chance to win." How would I respond to that expected answer? "I'm sure my money will be better spent joining a team that will help my daughter be a better player and actually... play."