- Feb 7, 2013
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RT, I really appreciate your posts. I'm not looking for an argument. Be careful what lessons the kids are learning. I've got a 16U and a college all-american. We've seen that, been there. It can be hard to stay with it. It can also build character.
I agree with you for the most part. For example, I have seen some 12/13yo pitchers who have been on a half a dozen different teams in the past 2 years, I think it is a mistake to jump around that much. However, in SoCal travel ball, when tryouts are in August and the season lasts until the following July, many teams use Sept - Dec as player development, evaluation and hold secondary tryouts in January to get ready for high season spring/summer. There is a ton of movement among teams in the winter: some fold, some lose key players, some players get injured, some quit softball entirely, some are not happy with the politics of the organization, playing time, daddy ball, etc.
You never really know the culture of the team until you are in it. Here is a perfect example. On DD's 1st year 14U team, we only have two pitchers on a 17 person roster (we were told at tryouts they "only" wanted 16 players max but at the start of the season we had 18 (1 dropped out of the sport). Because of the large roster, the coach doesn't bat the pitchers in tournaments because he has to get some of the other players playing time. However, his excuse was he didn't want the pitchers to get injured, really? DD wants to play Varsity softball next year and maybe college ball but she isn't getting the at-bat reps against live pitching that she needs in order to get better. Batting in friendlies/scrimmages is not the same as batting in tournaments. I paid $400 start-up fee and $150 a month dues plus any travel related costs. I also pay for hitting lessons while my DD doesn't bat in tournaments. So my point is that while its great to tell your DD to honor her commitment to the team through next July, I'm probably going to have to have a heart-to-heart with the HC to see if we can work out a compromise, but I would be a fool not to keep my options open especially when there are a ton of teams looking for pitchers.