I have a first year pitcher at 14u who is an athletic, coaches dream. She is already averaging 55mph, and will practice her tail off everyday if we'd let her. But on game day when we need her to pitch, she clamps up and her fear of failing is overwhelming. She'll get a horrible attitude and basically refuse to pitch. We only had two pitchers because one is out with an injury while my other starter has good movement but is lacking speed (low 40's, decent teams eat her pitching alive). I really needed her to throw but she wouldn't. So I benched her for three innings even though she's probably my best overall player. Right, wrong, or indifferent.... thoughts?