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This is a disturbing thread.
Not sure what you're saying. So let's say something comes up. How would a coach approach it through the mantle of care? What would that look like vs. a different approach? People have different opinions about what it means to care. Sometimes very caring people overstep their boundaries, with good intentions. I like coaches who care about their players. Too many don't. But some things they care about might be, as some have said, none of their business. So I'd say it depends on what kind of caring that you mean, IMO.
How so? (that question is too short to post, adding meaningless text now...)This is a disturbing thread.
The fact that coaches now have to deal with the unavoidable drama that intimate relationships amongst their players will cause for the team. That's it. Not taking the bait here.How so? (that question is too short to post, adding meaningless text now...)
The fact that coaches now have to deal with the unavoidable drama that intimate relationships amongst their players will cause for the team. That's it. Not taking the bait here.
Too many times I've walked with people who are struggling with this issue. It's the hardest thing I've dealt with in a church. No matter what people believe about this, if it ever becomes personal, people involved will experience and express fear, anger, sadness, isolation, accusation, failure, and more. That's everybody involved. It doesn't matter what one's belief is, or what "side" they claim. Everybody feels pain. These are circumstances that can tear churches and families apart..