- May 16, 2015
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My assessment:
DD thought she was missing out on being a "regular" girl in HS and doing "regular" HS kid things.
DD started to spend more time with these "regular" HS kids and found out they were not focused, not as productive, and not so much fun. By now at 16 yrs old and spending her previous 8 years working hard towards a goal my DD was a very different young lady from most in HS.
Moral of the story - If ya love it let it go....... If it was meant to be it will come back.
I feel the same way about my daughter. I think she's thinking that it sounds fun to do something different, hang out with kids who aren't softball players and maybe get a summer job. There is also now a boyfriend in the mix and I think that's also factoring into her decision. And that's all fine. But her best friends are all softball players and she is like your daughter, hard-working and focused, a different kid than most high schoolers. I'll let it play out and if it was meant to be, it will be.