So if academics are equal this comes down to playing HS softball at a private school versus a public school. In the scenario presented by the OP the parents are paying for her to play softball at a different school. Seems like investing the $$$ in hitting lessons or the like would be a better use of time and money. If paying a few thousand to play 20+ games a year for coach X instead of coach Y is worth it to them, then to each their own.
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