My situation is that I have2 DD in this organization. 1 on a 1st yr 16u team and one on first yr 14u team. My 16u DD team is ok, nothing special but competitive enough that she is having fun and enjoys her team. My 14u DD team is just a train wreck, I am talking 3 to 4 errors a inning bad. My 14u DD loves softball but this year has been terrible for her. She left REC ball because of these issues only to find herself on a club team that would only be competitive against lower REC teams.
So I have 1 DD that wants to stay on her 16u team and one who absolutely will not play another year on the team the way it is now.
Do I go to the director and talk about this situation before the end of the season? Do I just keep my mouth shut and tell the team my 14u kid will not return until after the last tournament? Do I ask the director if they have any changes planned for the 14u team?
The other tricky part of this is 2 days after the season ends we are going on a long vacation( I will not deal with softball on vacation) and will not be back until the day before try outs start for teams. If you have any advice for me I would appreciate it.
So I have 1 DD that wants to stay on her 16u team and one who absolutely will not play another year on the team the way it is now.
Do I go to the director and talk about this situation before the end of the season? Do I just keep my mouth shut and tell the team my 14u kid will not return until after the last tournament? Do I ask the director if they have any changes planned for the 14u team?
The other tricky part of this is 2 days after the season ends we are going on a long vacation( I will not deal with softball on vacation) and will not be back until the day before try outs start for teams. If you have any advice for me I would appreciate it.