My daughter is a pitcher on a 14U team and for the first time this weekend shook off a pitch the coach called. Reason - coach calls for a changeup and she knew that the batter had twice before had whacked the ball on the same pitch. Coach gets mad, calls for a timeout, walks up to her and tells her this: "You think you are the best player on this team, you think you are better than anyone else here. Well - you are not the best. And it was downright dis-respectful that you shot me down" She was in so much shock to hear that she did not know how to respond!
Later on she apologized to him and he told her that he wasn't mad at her. She is a tough kid and did not show anyone how much this upset her, but continued to pitch the game and play 2 more games after that. It was only on our ride back home she broke down. She did not want to play for the coach or the team anymore.
How would you handle this situation?
Later on she apologized to him and he told her that he wasn't mad at her. She is a tough kid and did not show anyone how much this upset her, but continued to pitch the game and play 2 more games after that. It was only on our ride back home she broke down. She did not want to play for the coach or the team anymore.
How would you handle this situation?