seriously, it depends on age. and what kind of dicsussions were had prior to joining or staying with team.
if coach promised or indicated development of players was key, but DD is languishing on bench, I want to know why, so we can work to change those things. if coach indicated that players were going to move around, but the top 6 or 7 are set in their positions, and the 5 or 6 other girls are rotating RF, LF, and bench, this is not moving everybody around.
again, never at/before/after practice/game. might be hard to do face to face, but definitely not those times.
if coach promised or indicated development of players was key, but DD is languishing on bench, I want to know why, so we can work to change those things. if coach indicated that players were going to move around, but the top 6 or 7 are set in their positions, and the 5 or 6 other girls are rotating RF, LF, and bench, this is not moving everybody around.
again, never at/before/after practice/game. might be hard to do face to face, but definitely not those times.