- Aug 11, 2016
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I mean, obviously, no word means no spot, but a little courtesy is always appreciated.
My DD received an email a week after a tryout thanking her for coming. In the same email they say, contact me if you would like to know why you were not selected and what can you do to improve (they also told the kids in person that they were welcome to ask why they were not selected).
We naively told our daughter to reply back, and she did with a lot of class... That although disappointed, she understands and thanked them for the opportunity... That she would like to hear the feedback to have a better chance at next year's tryout... And that she would like to keep in contact from time to time to tell them about her progress. Keep in mind she is 13.
Two weeks later, we have heard no feedback or nothing from them. Maybe we just need to give them more time, or maybe they will never answer. But if they don't answer, after they explicitly offered to tell my DD why she didn't got selected, then we are not giving them any second, or maybe in this case a third thought. Not worth our time. If it was me, I don't care, but not answering back to a 13 year old after the class she showed in that email, shows that the organization is not at her level.
My DD will be playing with a team that actually wants her, and a team she wants to play in... She will be seeing a lot of action and that is all that matters.
I only hope is that if she face the team that she tried out for in that other organization next season, that she shows them the meaning of "Thou shall not steal" by throwing out any player that attempts to steal... just kidding... but seriously, her record is 4 in a single game and she will break that record with them...
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