Most go in only knowing they’ll have a chance to contribute. They don’t know when, how many innings or which games. It helps prepare them for college because they might not play more than two innings their entire freshman year. They need to learn how to improve at practice or never see the field. Playing on teams of 10-11 kids and never having to compete for a spot is why so many girls quit after freshman year. Something to think about, if she can’t beat out 3 other catchers on her team, how is she going to beat out 300 other girls seeking a roster spot on a D1 team?
Regardless it's pretty clear your current team isn’t a good fit for a girl with D1 aspirations. She’s a 16U player on a 14U team. Have her talk with her current coach about her goals and plans to move on after the season. They’ll either accommodate her guest playing or decide to part ways. Either way you get what you want without burning bridges.
Nailed it.