I wouldn't hold it against her. However, if you aren't really committed to a team you are going to experience some resentment from other players.
seems to not have been an issue so far. and of the one game she missed, and one of the two others she will miss, was not for TB, but school function that caused several of the girls (most all go to same school) to miss as well, HC played with pool players. and she sits an inning or two a game just like everyone else.
I think it is clear to other girls though that DD and #1 pitcher and one other player play at a different level. but they do not hold themselves out as better, Dd in particular tries to be a leader, is very vocal and encouraging (Hc jokes she gives him headache in the dugout to all the girls, she wants them to improve (somewhat selfishly, she wants to win!)