Hey...here is a question that I am asking to see if it's just my area or if this happens everywhere...
DD goes to a very small private school. This year, there are 17 girls on the softball team. DD has always played 1st for B team. Due to lack of players, thought she might would have a shot at A team 1st base. Another child on the team has been swapping in and out at 1st during practices - so be it. My take is that there would be a lot less pressure on B than on A, so I'm good with that.
There has been division among the parents. It started last year when we weren't on the top of the softball heap. There are a couple of us who cheer for every girl and put on smiles at every game. Now, two of us gripe constantly to one another, but never in front of the girls and certainly never to any of the other parents.
My question, after the long road to get there, is this - is there contention among parents when it comes to children and their field time? Would you, as a parent, threaten to remove your child from a high school team if she isn't played where and how often you think she should? Just so you know, I am not that parent...my dd has been the biggest cheerleader from the bench for the A team going on 3 seasons! Just a bit frustrated at how the other parents like to "gang up"...after all, are we not all doing this for the girls?? Jeez....
Sorry for my rant, but do hope that some of you have a tad bit of insight into this for me.
DD goes to a very small private school. This year, there are 17 girls on the softball team. DD has always played 1st for B team. Due to lack of players, thought she might would have a shot at A team 1st base. Another child on the team has been swapping in and out at 1st during practices - so be it. My take is that there would be a lot less pressure on B than on A, so I'm good with that.
There has been division among the parents. It started last year when we weren't on the top of the softball heap. There are a couple of us who cheer for every girl and put on smiles at every game. Now, two of us gripe constantly to one another, but never in front of the girls and certainly never to any of the other parents.
My question, after the long road to get there, is this - is there contention among parents when it comes to children and their field time? Would you, as a parent, threaten to remove your child from a high school team if she isn't played where and how often you think she should? Just so you know, I am not that parent...my dd has been the biggest cheerleader from the bench for the A team going on 3 seasons! Just a bit frustrated at how the other parents like to "gang up"...after all, are we not all doing this for the girls?? Jeez....
Sorry for my rant, but do hope that some of you have a tad bit of insight into this for me.