If these girls are 14u or older it's time to ask them what kind of team they want to be....with their parents listening. It needs to be okay if they just want to hang out with their friends and play a little softball...there's a level of softball for every goal. If they say they have a bigger goal then ask them what they think it will take to get there. Really listen to them talk and take their goals into consideration. Girls at this age need a good sandwich of praise and push...they are a different animal than teen boys...most girls not all but most can't w angered into a better performance like boys can...you have to find what motivates them and respect it.
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We did an exercise where we came up with 3 words to describe their dream team/season, followed up with what that looked like, or how a dream team would behave to live up to their dream team. Example, one of the words they used to describe their team was COMMITTED. They then came up with sentences that describe what a COMMITTED team looks like. Examples: A COMMITTED team comes to practice. A COMMITTED team works outside of practice on their individual skills, A COMMITTED team works hard in practice and uses time wisely, A COMMITTED team will take care of school work so they can play softball etc etc.
we didn't have parents listen it, but we took our three words, dream season and our descriptive sentences and shared it with the parents. What was great was when behaviors didn't align with our dream season it was easy to say "that behavior doesn't align with our core values or our dream team expectation" Since they came up with the dream season it worked well....the "leaders" on the team used it to keep the team moving in the right direction but with out having to beat girls over the head.
I think this is even applicable to under 14 age group as well. The sooner the better....it helps girls develop a sense of what they want and what it takes to move towards that goal with the guidance of the adults in their life.
There are resources out there to shape a season if you put the work in ahead of time, middle of a season is tough.
to the OP, now that fall ball is done there is a natural opportunity to reboot for the winter-going into spring/summer next year.
And set CLEAR expectations initially with consitent application of the expectations and consequences.