Cannonball
Ex "Expert"
- Feb 25, 2009
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In listening to pro golfer Davis Riley comment on his recent PGA win, he said some things that most players and coaches should take to heart. He mentioned that his best year as a pro golfer was his rookie year. From there, he changed his lifetime coach for someone who could get him to the next level. In fact, his game took a step backward. Over the winter, he returned to his old coach who's advice was to simplify what he was doing, basically stop overthinking things and start to have fun with the game again. As I watched that, I was reminded of a young lady who had come to me before COVID. She was so messed up. She had been to so many coaches and they had told her that she had so many flaws in her swing and that she needed to do this or that and ... She was mentally destroyed by the time I got to work with her.
I did my first basic free lesson/evaluation and she was laughing before the lesson was over. IOWs, she stopped thinking, we had a conversation about hitting and stuff, and she had fun. I believe I gave her 3 lessons before everything shut down. I stopped giving lessons.
In my rambling way, sometimes more is not better. That guru who was good for your friend's child might not be the best for your child. Sometimes it is better to run than to allow your player to continue to take lessons from someone who overcoaches, overloads them on drills and mentally breaks your player down.
I did my first basic free lesson/evaluation and she was laughing before the lesson was over. IOWs, she stopped thinking, we had a conversation about hitting and stuff, and she had fun. I believe I gave her 3 lessons before everything shut down. I stopped giving lessons.
In my rambling way, sometimes more is not better. That guru who was good for your friend's child might not be the best for your child. Sometimes it is better to run than to allow your player to continue to take lessons from someone who overcoaches, overloads them on drills and mentally breaks your player down.
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