I assume you're looking for a ball that won't cause too much damage if it hits something. Unfortunately I don't think there is a good compromise between a 'forgiving' ball and one that feels real. A softer ball is bouncy, a firm one causes damage. Jugs had a softer one with good seams. Worth has a level 10 which feels real but hits hard. My experience with these balls is several years old, there might be something better on the market now.