DFP Crew,
Asked DD if she would be up for a regional 12u team tryout to participate in a national tournament. She replied that "I'm not ready" and it clearly made her anxious. She has struggled to hit against pitching machines and I suspect that is the major source of her anxiety, but it may be the whole unknown judges thing, dunno. I'm struggling with how hard I should encourage her (if at all).
A little context - she has played for 6 years in a MA Class C travel team, but she has never tried out for any other team. I thought this would be a low risk (in terms of if you don't make it, oh well, no biggie) way to practice trying out. It's like job interviews - you don't interview first for the job you really want right? It's good to have a couple of practice ones first. I think she's good enough for high school ball and the current HS coach I have heard strongly encourages participation in other TB programs besides town.
Is this a case where Dad should just back off and let her tell me when she is ready for this sort of thing? Did any of your daughters suffer this kind of stress and if so, what age did it abate?
Thanks!
Asked DD if she would be up for a regional 12u team tryout to participate in a national tournament. She replied that "I'm not ready" and it clearly made her anxious. She has struggled to hit against pitching machines and I suspect that is the major source of her anxiety, but it may be the whole unknown judges thing, dunno. I'm struggling with how hard I should encourage her (if at all).
A little context - she has played for 6 years in a MA Class C travel team, but she has never tried out for any other team. I thought this would be a low risk (in terms of if you don't make it, oh well, no biggie) way to practice trying out. It's like job interviews - you don't interview first for the job you really want right? It's good to have a couple of practice ones first. I think she's good enough for high school ball and the current HS coach I have heard strongly encourages participation in other TB programs besides town.
Is this a case where Dad should just back off and let her tell me when she is ready for this sort of thing? Did any of your daughters suffer this kind of stress and if so, what age did it abate?
Thanks!