Also to make certain that when they are buying uniforms, bags, helmets etc. that it adds up. most teams we have been have budgeted more than these actually cost (estimates not taking into account volume discounts, etc.), so final payment got reduced or eliminated. but, if everything is not transparent, this difference could easily wind up in someones pocket.
btw, making the personal accounts visible to only a small subset (ie that family) and having team balance sheet available to everyone is pretty simple actually.
I'm firmly in the camp that you have to believe completely in the team and the organization your DD plays for. There was a pretty steep learning curve for me before I said "F@#% IT", I've got to let all of the extraneous stuff go. If you don't the problem either lies in the org or your own expectations. If you don't believe in your surroundings, make a change.
FWIW, our dues are monthly $200 (roster of 17). That pays for unlimited strength and conditioning, weekend practices and field time, and friendly / tournament fees. The manager does not provide a schedule. Our uniforms and gear are purchased individually from an online store. We have 2 football fundraisers and host a tournament. All money goes to the manager. Our team has never asked for additional money at the end of the season due to a tight budget.
Not a good way to be thinking.......seen a guy that had multiple teams, suddenly quit and opens business, and left everyone hanging....Why do parents feel they deserve to see an itemized spreadsheet of all the costs to run the team or organization?
Last year my daughter played for a large organization. At no point in the season did the team's finances ever cross my mind. At the beginning of the season, we were told how the cost, and what we would get for the cost. Parents agreed to the cost. End of story.
IMO, it would be ignorant to ask to see a team's finances that you have nothing to do with.