Our team is 12U. Usually the first couple of innings in games our team's fielding is really good and they can keep the other team from scoring. We might score a few runs and the girls are excited because they think they might have a chance of winning the game. They are cheering from the dugout and chattering from the field. But once the other team scores a few runs and takes the lead, our team takes on this defeatest attitude. Everyone stops chearing and chattering, they all look depressed and then start making horrible mistakes. They think, well the other team is ahead, and we are going to lose, so why even try. Over the weekend we played a really good team and the first few innings we kept them from scoring. A couple of our players made some errors on routine plays and then the other girls get mad and then they start making stupid errors. We lost that game (in fact we lose every game) for the same reasons every single time. How do we get out of this mess of an attitude our girls have????