I agree, so I volunteered to start bringing my bucket, tee, net and plate to games. Coach has them pair up and throw for warm ups and then she will go out and hit some pop fly's and grounders. Once I started bringing my gear I call them over in pairs to hit a few. I'm very carefull to not coach them on their swing though. I just offer encouragement. She usually tries to get the third base dugout so she can do everything from the third base side. She played in college so she knows the game, but is new(ish) to coaching I was an AC in 8u rec ball and we had 3 AC's and it was still a lot of work. Don't get me wrong, I like the organization, coach and the girls, I'm just trying to figure out what should be expected. Sounds like I need to talk with the coach/organization head and make some resoectful decisions.
The #1 question needs to be "Where are my fees going?". We don't have softballs or bownets is concerning. This is probably the #1 lesson you will learn as well - doing more research on the travel team and org you are joining.
I am not a big fan of recently graduated players being head coaches without a lot of coaching experience or without the assistance of someone who has a great deal of coaching experience. It normally doesn't go well - they often get bulldozed by parents who view them as 'kids' or make some bad mistakes just from inexperience.