The grabbing and shaking, totally non-acceptable, is likely a result of the drinking. There probably will be much more serious issues down the road if this is not addressed ASAP.Think everyone is getting distracted by the drinking. That's bad and needs to stop, but the bigger issue is grabbing the player and shaking her. That can't happen, period.
I understand it's not your team, but if you have actual knowledge of this, you should do something about it. I understand you are probably not a "mandatory reporter" in this situation, but I can't imagine knowing about this and not doing something.I’m gonna preface this with the fact that this is not a team that I am on! It’s just a scenario I recently became aware of and I’m interested to see how you all feel it should be handled on all aspects: as a parent, as a coach, as a team parent.