We were harassed by a coach since last season to be in his team, this season our daughter decided she wanted to join that team because her friends were there. So we gave in (we’ve had issues in past and do not like a specific parent on team)
we told coach last night our daughter had made the decisions to play with him, my husband asked him for practice schedule
& if girls had practice today. He said he was just going to work with his daughter and another player.
So my husband decided to take our DD to park for reps... low & behold the whole team was practicing without my daughter.
when my DD got off the vehicle, she attempted to run over there thinking she had practice with her friends... it took all of me to be strong and to tell her she was not invited to the practice.
My husband worked our DD out and the coach never approached him to tell him the mix up or invited my DD over, the other softball players even went to say hi to my DD! When my husband called the HC after practice it went straight to voicemail.
How do I approach this coach in the future, Do we call him out on it or let it be?
Most importantly, how do I explain what happened to my naive 11 year old?
***Update
Coach has bombarded us with messages & calls apologizing & asking to give second chance, he is blaming parents stating they have issues of whether we will commit to team
we told coach last night our daughter had made the decisions to play with him, my husband asked him for practice schedule
& if girls had practice today. He said he was just going to work with his daughter and another player.
So my husband decided to take our DD to park for reps... low & behold the whole team was practicing without my daughter.
when my DD got off the vehicle, she attempted to run over there thinking she had practice with her friends... it took all of me to be strong and to tell her she was not invited to the practice.
My husband worked our DD out and the coach never approached him to tell him the mix up or invited my DD over, the other softball players even went to say hi to my DD! When my husband called the HC after practice it went straight to voicemail.
How do I approach this coach in the future, Do we call him out on it or let it be?
Most importantly, how do I explain what happened to my naive 11 year old?
***Update
Coach has bombarded us with messages & calls apologizing & asking to give second chance, he is blaming parents stating they have issues of whether we will commit to team
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