- Oct 16, 2014
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So, perhaps many of you have experienced this in the past, though, I hope not...Our organization has 3 age groups 12, 14, and 16...about 6 months ago, a dad of a player that has been with me for over two years "stepped" up to help coach...he was a good guy, active duty military (I'm retired, disabled military) and for a little bit, all was good...our 12's and 14's would frequently go to the same tournaments together and when they weren't playing at the same time we both had to go with one team...as time went by he spent more time with the 14's until suddenly he felt it was "his" team...well, soon the pot hit the fan as two weeks before leaving to go the Wold Series him and his wife, who was my friend or so I thought decide they are going to pull a coup and try and "force" me out and give him/them control of the team...uh, not likely...he got butt hurt and quit a week before the Regional tournament...since, it's literally been like the Marvel Civil War with team me and team him...I think I would be Captain America in this analogy...well, it has completely blown up the team...we just concluded the World Series and the team has imploded...5 girls have already left...there is quite a bit more detail, example deliberate attempts to undermine, and sabotage but, I'll leave that out...
So, what are your thoughts, and experiences on this...and do I have room in my totally imperfect human frailties to be well, pissed...
So, what are your thoughts, and experiences on this...and do I have room in my totally imperfect human frailties to be well, pissed...