I feel like we are getting punked! This can't be for real. Is it? Based on the information provided, I would kindly step away after the last game of the fall season. Tell the organization that this team is no longer a good fit for my DD. Tip your hat, and walk away knowing you are doing what is best for YOUR sanity and your DD's growth and development. This 13YO has been knighted as Head Coach. Her circus and her monkeys now. This will insure that you do not over step your boundaries. I am curious what the other parents on this team are thinking.