Ok that is true, I guess I should have said "should coaches being saying this sort of stuff.."
That all depends.... Yeah, I know I say that a lot At the high school level, DD and I had talked about that type of situation long before it actually happened. She understood her role on the team and accepted the responsibility.
As a coach, it is my job to understand the abilities of each of my players, and then place them in the best possible position to succeed. I have coached players that thrived on that type of situation. I would think nothing about talking to that player between innings or even just prior to an at bat. I knew they could handle it. I have also coached players that would melt under that type of pressure. Good players, but didn't want to be on the spot. Each player must be managed differently...
I could reverse the situation as well. Bases loaded, your team is up by 2. Opposing batter is an absolute stud. Already has a couple of hits and RBIs. Do you walk her allowing one run to score while retaining the lead? Or do you take your chances that your pitcher won't allow a hit to the gap that will either tie or lose the game?