How do you get your pitcher to pitch at the same level in a game that she does in the back yard? My DD goes all out in the yard practicing when she pitches to me. She is actually the number 1 catcher, she is the #2 or 3 pitcer, but when she pitches, she doesn't have an experienced catcher. She sometimes says she's afraid to hurt her friend who stepped up to catch so she could pitch, or she doesn't trust her to stop a wild pitch. We keep telling her she can't think about all of that she's just got to throw hard. So far I haven't seen it. Any advice???