DD2 is in similar situation as your DD. She's also primarily a pitcher. She had 9 schools reach out. 5 that followed her for last 2 years. 3 that watched this Summer and 1 that has one of her teammates verballed and saw DD2 do some good things this Summer.. That was a nice surprise. One school we thought would reach out never did. Which is OK. She might have been 3 or 4 on their list. We still have 3 more visits in Sept. and hope to commit by Oct. if that's what she wants to do.DD was contacted by several schools on her list on Sunday morning. Some sent emails and few reached out to her travel coach for her cell number. The biggest stress for me and DW was watching her as she had conversations with college coaches. Of the schools that contacted her about half invited her to camps and the others showed genuine interest. She has a few visits set up based on the calls.
I won't get into specifics obviously but she was blown away by a few schools that were not on her radar. The others that reached out she has been emailing since 8th grade. She's a pitcher so maybe they are looking pitcher first.