What to do…
We have a daughter who is in her 2nd year of travel ball in Ohio. She joined a team who recruited her saying that she was one of the top players and that she would play the infield and they would let her earn a spot pitching. The coach said that basically if she worked hard through the winter that she would have a chance to earn a pitching position.
Our DD started off the season as the SS occasionally playing 3rd base and 2nd. The team added another player to the roster later in the year and our DD was then sharing 2nd and centerfield which she honestly didn’t mind at all. DD got ill before the first indoor tourney and was unable to attend. The team did very well without her. When she was able to return to the team she was now centerfielder.
She was never looked at as a pitcher..never even asked to show what she could do. She has been attending pitching lessons every week for a year and we have paid a boatload of $ for these instructions. Her instructor, of course, says that she needs mound time. The team has 3 very solid pitchers but never looked at any of the other girls.
Basically, our DD is not happy with her current team. She hates being in the outfield and is just not a happy camper. She is actually starting to dread the practices and games. She has always LOVED softball and we are afraid that she is going to start to dislike it altogether. We have tried encouraging her by telling her that at 12u the outfield gets a lot more action but she says well that's at 12u! At 10u she is lucky to get one ball come to her in a whole tourny.
Another thing that is really bothering us, is the fact that this team is sitting the same 3 girls (not our DD) on the bench at all times…when they do finally get to come in to play they are always in the outfield. We feel so bad for them. Our team is really really good and sometimes they will get up by 10 or more runs and STILL they don’t switch the positions around and let these girls come and play a little infield. This is for U10 and I just don’t feel that it is right.
Should we pull our DD from the team? The season is just getting underway. I don’t want to teach her to be a quitter but I don’t want her to be unhappy either. She is a truly talented player who any other team would be thrilled to have. She could be getting a little precious mound time on any other team.
Is winning everything at this age? Her current team is probably one of the best in the state of Ohio and switching teams would definitely be a downgrade but she is not going to be given the chance to develop her skills. The current infield/pitchers is all made up of coaches kids. They ARE very good but would it hurt to let other players develop too especially if the score is so ridiculously lopsided?
We have a daughter who is in her 2nd year of travel ball in Ohio. She joined a team who recruited her saying that she was one of the top players and that she would play the infield and they would let her earn a spot pitching. The coach said that basically if she worked hard through the winter that she would have a chance to earn a pitching position.
Our DD started off the season as the SS occasionally playing 3rd base and 2nd. The team added another player to the roster later in the year and our DD was then sharing 2nd and centerfield which she honestly didn’t mind at all. DD got ill before the first indoor tourney and was unable to attend. The team did very well without her. When she was able to return to the team she was now centerfielder.
She was never looked at as a pitcher..never even asked to show what she could do. She has been attending pitching lessons every week for a year and we have paid a boatload of $ for these instructions. Her instructor, of course, says that she needs mound time. The team has 3 very solid pitchers but never looked at any of the other girls.
Basically, our DD is not happy with her current team. She hates being in the outfield and is just not a happy camper. She is actually starting to dread the practices and games. She has always LOVED softball and we are afraid that she is going to start to dislike it altogether. We have tried encouraging her by telling her that at 12u the outfield gets a lot more action but she says well that's at 12u! At 10u she is lucky to get one ball come to her in a whole tourny.
Another thing that is really bothering us, is the fact that this team is sitting the same 3 girls (not our DD) on the bench at all times…when they do finally get to come in to play they are always in the outfield. We feel so bad for them. Our team is really really good and sometimes they will get up by 10 or more runs and STILL they don’t switch the positions around and let these girls come and play a little infield. This is for U10 and I just don’t feel that it is right.
Should we pull our DD from the team? The season is just getting underway. I don’t want to teach her to be a quitter but I don’t want her to be unhappy either. She is a truly talented player who any other team would be thrilled to have. She could be getting a little precious mound time on any other team.
Is winning everything at this age? Her current team is probably one of the best in the state of Ohio and switching teams would definitely be a downgrade but she is not going to be given the chance to develop her skills. The current infield/pitchers is all made up of coaches kids. They ARE very good but would it hurt to let other players develop too especially if the score is so ridiculously lopsided?