Sorry to stay off topic, but a couple of posts about competitiveness at 8U made me think about this.
I'd be more competitive in an all-star situation than I would a travel ball situation. As Quincy said, it's a short season, and part of the purpose of all-stars is to see how your league's best stacks up against another's. The rec ball season is strictly player development. Player development never ceases, but all-star season is also time to show what you've got and see how many games you can win (while being reasonable about it, meaning everybody should play enough to keep it fun for all.)
I'd be more competitive in an all-star situation than I would a travel ball situation. As Quincy said, it's a short season, and part of the purpose of all-stars is to see how your league's best stacks up against another's. The rec ball season is strictly player development. Player development never ceases, but all-star season is also time to show what you've got and see how many games you can win (while being reasonable about it, meaning everybody should play enough to keep it fun for all.)