- Nov 29, 2009
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It’s pretty clear you guys are on the right path seeking and being open to advice here. I know its hard to “punish the kid” for the deeds of the parent, but sometimes its gotta be done. When parents become that big of a cancer you have to cut them loose or your good parents will start leaving.
One of the programs DD played for had a parent like the OP's when she first started in the program. The program director ended up having to remove the girl from the program. He told the player she was welcome back any time. So long as her father was not around. The guy ended up on the BOD of another organization. He is still an idiot to this day. Long, long after his DD finished her career.
One year I picked up a girl after tryouts in the fall, 14U. Good player. Great kid. Dad says to us. I've coached before. I can help. Our response. "Thanks, but we're good." It was myself, DD and another former D1 college player. No kids on the team. Daddy tried a few more times to get into the dugout and we turned him down. Middle of winter I get an email from him. His DD is all "Upset and crying" because she was called a "name" by one of the coaches. He pulls his DD from the team and she goes to play for another team. Within 4 weeks of her being on that team there are all kinds of issues. The HC quits. Guess who is now the new HC.
And another thing. The girl wanted a number that was already assigned to another player who didn't want to give it up. No... Her parents did not have a pole barn.