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  1. Coach JV

    Should goal be college?

    Yes, you are jumping the gun a bit as they have not begun being interested in boys etc. I encourage you to be transparent before and after every season ask them if they still have the love of the game. Once they play at 16U and higher, it becomes a bit more like a 'job' as the majority of girls...
  2. Coach JV

    Checking out

    I have enjoyed this forum for the past several years sharing the ups and downs of FP softball. Now that my DD has completed her last year of NCAA eligibility and has moved on to the next chapter of her future, I find myself rarely visiting the DFP forum. Best of luck to all, especially those who...
  3. Coach JV

    Buying a pitching machine

    Ken Krause has the most complete and sensible answer. We use the jugs machine primarily for bunting drills. It is a great tool for outfield practice as well, keeping all adjustments loose so you can have fluid change in trajectory. I agree that hitting is best learned on a Tee, especially as...
  4. Coach JV

    How are scholarships typically sliced and divided?

    Before jumping into amount of athletic scholarship, plug into the 'net price calculator' found on the admissions/Financial aid page of most colleges. This takes only a few minutes based on your family income, etc. It is a useful tool in narrowing school selections before athletics kicks in. It...
  5. Coach JV

    Softball Christmas gift for Wife

    a fifth of Bourbon?
  6. Coach JV

    Travel family

    I suggest not sitting in the bleachers with the other families especially at 12U. They will down-talk different players regularly (especially after a bad play). They will certainly also talk about your DD when you're not present as well. Avoid the drama, bring a chair and sit away from the...
  7. Coach JV

    Could regular bowling affect pitching mechanics?

    When my DD was 15 or 16, she bowled on a Saturday night and pitched Sunday Morning- plunked 7 batters and still won the game 5-2. Coincidence? I think not we had some laughs afterwards though
  8. Coach JV

    I've never seen this, is it normal? Umpire issue

    My $.02, unfortunately, questionable umpiring is part of the game. No appeal on judgement calls, also, (I don't know the history), umpires have good memories when it involves past encounters. I am of the school, where I only ask for appeal where it is a critical part of the game and the score...
  9. Coach JV

    D3/JUCO programs

    For the student, athlete, school choice should be based on academic offerings and the quality of education at the chosen school. That being said, as a parent, we want the most competitive games ever. There are good and bad teams at every level. Pick and choose-be blessed that you are afforded...
  10. Coach JV

    D3/JUCO programs

    Marriard has posted the most relevant info. I happened to be at the D3 National Championship in OKC over Memorial day. The quality of the final 8 teams was excellent. These teams definitely were not short on talent and pitching. The broader question of all programs is how well does the...
  11. Coach JV

    In need of some advice

    Every family dynamic is different. My softball player never had time to work as travel ball eats up lots of summer weeks. While she was in HS (and now in college) we told her that doing well in school was her 'job' and #1 priority. She has reaped the benefits of attending one of the top schools...
  12. Coach JV

    Folding Tee Recommendations

    I use the Schutt Travel tee. Purchase a few tee toppers for it and they have been fine for me
  13. Coach JV

    Prayers for Parkland

    Among the victims were the AD, Cross country Coach and asst. football coach
  14. Coach JV

    Need a Separate Set of Eyes to Look at Mechanics

    Great drive off the rubber, looks good! At the magical 60+ is she hitting her spots? (not a GURU just a pitcher's dad)
  15. Coach JV

    Recruitment and Test Scores for 8,9,10 graders

    OP- you are on a good path as it is much easier for teams to showcase players on the higher end of the academic scale. Mont schools look at standardized scores and GPA before deciding if they are going to watch DD play. Best of luck!
  16. Coach JV

    Softball Rant

    What seems like a big deal now, you will look back at and laugh. Once you get beyond 14U, the 'pretenders' are gone and the girls are there for the game. Parents provide far less drama at the older ages as well. The peak of drama for me was 12U-14U. I give thanks daily that I spent only one...
  17. Coach JV

    Coaches Christmas Gifts

    I have a pic of me with a player at her NLI ceremony with a simple 'Thanks Coach!' written in sharpie in my office-
  18. Coach JV

    Coaches Christmas Gifts

    How about a handwritten thank you with a photo of player and coach?
  19. Coach JV

    Softball balance and Family Life?

    No matter which path you choose, softball is a lifestyle. For me, we played primarily locally on TB until 16U. I found that 10-14U is still a bit of a social sport. 16U is when girls are serious about pursuing the game beyond High School. I am happy with the choices we made and DD is now...
  20. Coach JV

    Speed progression - for those that have been there

    Last the college level location is key as most players can hit a fastball in the 60s. As the pitchers progress, work on location. As far as the OP- yes, there were plateaus and breakthroughs but this is sound advice:

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