My advice is play when you get a chace to. My DDs senior year HS🥎 was cancelled now her Freshman year of College 🥎 is cancelled.
Player , Parent then coach.
1) as a player they have to work hard and put the work in on the side. Like hitting, bullpens and what ever they need to work on.
2) as a parent it's your job to help them get that stuff done.
3) as a coach it's up to you to fine tune and teach all your players...