Although I see where you're coming from here, I couldn't disagree more with your 12" glove in the outfield is plenty! Let's take two really great 12" models, a Rawlings Pro206 HOH and a Wilson A2000 DW5, these are NOT suitable outfield gloves for baseball, much less softball. And yes a great outfielder could use them but why would they?
You're welcome to disagree with me all you like. I was just giving my opinion and if my opinion based on playing thousands of games and coaching for 25 years bugs you I'm sorry. Its extraordinairly rare to find a coach who teaches how to properly catch a ball or a player who understands that. An extra three quarters of an inch means absolutely nothing. Unless you manage a snow cone the tips of your glove should never touch a ball anyway. You can also throw away all the internet nonsense on kip,horween....... Leathers. By glove you are 100% comfortable with not with the consensus think and go have a good time.
Comparing a female to a top of their class male also means nothing. Again that's my opinion.