Combine building frustration with the heat of summer, and all sorts of interesting things will happen. Having seen all sides of it, parents get the bad rap for getting pissed and impulsively acting on that, but sometimes the coach deserves it. Lots of money and effort are expended just to play at a decent level much less travel to high-level tournaments. Sitting rostered players so that pick-ups can help a team win is often the trigger for some well-founded hostility. Sometimes, the kid just doesn't have what it takes to play on a big stage. The parents may have stretched too far and expected too much when they joined that top-level team with a big roster, but the coach took their money and time. I'm no longer surprised when anger boils over because of that.
I sign on with this. If Coach doesn't have faith in his rostered players, he should a) never have put them on the roster in the first place, b) communicate with those parents, tell them their DD will probably see little PT the rest of the season and give them to choice to stay or go, or c) COACH those players and develop them. They won't get any better when benched all the time.
ETA: Still doesn't excuse "hissy-quit" behavior. Time and place, but I can understand the frustration, especially when putting out $$$$$$ for planes, rental cars, hotels, food, etc..., etc....
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