Rather than "honest", I'd say something like "totally open." Hard to tell whether the college players are being themselves or just trying to coax info out, so recruits need to be careful what they reveal. YMMV by player(s), school and team culture.
The job interview is a good analogy as both sides are trying to present themselves in a favorable light and learn about the other. Both sides need to be very careful they don't disqualify themselves.
