I daughter's hitting coach has a son who is a very high level player and an excellent hitter.
All the son ever did was just hit, no tees, just live pitching.
If there are two outs and the runner on first is not fast, throw her out and end the inning. (the runner likely won't try to get into a pickle so the run won't score.)
If I'm doing Gamechanger, it is a steal if she commits to going before the ball is dropped, otherwise it's E2.
If it's my daughter, it is always stolen base, right?
I hope your daughter bounces back. In U8 she would cry when she got up to bat. In a U12 All Star game she played against a pitcher and one dad very familiar with softball said, "I've never seen a 12 year old pitch that fast." Rumor has it that she had a D1 "offer" already.
My daughter struck out...
Maybe tell the team that the catcher is the first one on the field, she’ll have 8 girls available to help her get her gear on. Yeah, kinda dumb, but makes the point.
That wasn't the first time he was overly passionate about a softball game and it won't be the last. I'd email the coach, AD, Principal and your school's AD and principal and let then know that you feel that it's potentially dangerous to play that team unless...