but also, it was clear before you guys packed up for a national tournament what that girls role was, and they had the chance (and used it) to avoid shelling out big money for travel for her to ride aluminum (pine is outdated, all benches pretty much aluminum now, we need to change terminology that was my biggest problem, was the complete change in how the time was split only at nationals. I have a feeling, if they had not planned to do nationals (where 11 games in 4 days was a possiblity), the true colors would have come out long before, we were strung along as an insurance policy for nationals so other C would not fall over dead
ie, DD was used, not first time for her (previous time was playing soccer, she was GK, similar situation, singular position).
and 18u is different animal, at that point it is more about winning and showcasing than about development anymore. 12u C (all 12u really) needs to be about player development. I am certain that girl who say 4-5 innings in field and like 5 at bats would trade runner up rings they received for more PT. but what do coaches care, they got a ring and a trophy for the clubhouse, and something to brag about.
Oh I agree with you whole heartedly. Just telling you that it doesn't matter the age... tears still flow