This is always a tough one. Our team has been on the winning side of these a few times and recently found ourselves on the losing side. The winning team was up by 8 or so...not enough to run rule. I typically have no expectation of the other team taking it easy, but apparently the umpire thought he should. BR on 1st and 3rd and the girl from first goes to second and the ump calls her out for leaving early. Later on he came to me and told me, that the girl didn't leave early but thought the other team should have done it on their own.
Totally off topic - but that isn't the umpires job to make this decision. Real pet peeve of mine and really not acceptable.