Oh and require them to watch one game of softball or baseball a week as homework.
This season DD and her three closest softball buddies are on different teams. So that means that we stay after her games to watch a friend, or come early to watch a friend, almost every single weekend. She sees things in their games that she doesn't see when she's playing - the different perspective really helps. I think she's learned more about how softball is played by watching other kids than she has by playing or practicing.