Sorry for the long post. Promise I wont do this again. Am i a lone idiot here in that I have had anxiety(I guess that's what you call it) and sleeplessness over making a decision with my wife and DD on who she will play for? She's not even 12. Turned down a team that DD made, but would have been in bottom 3-4 and DD wanted to pitch so said she wanted to stay with old team. Old team tryouts were held on a Saturday. Decided after not hearing anything by the next week that we would go to a tryout my DD was invited to. Two of her friends went as well. All sure DD and friends would make their old team, but being the only 12's, not sure how rest of team would look. Girls had great tryout. Really impressed with coaches and head of the organization. All three were offered a spot. DD and her friends really wanted to play for new team after only knowing their old team and organization for the last 2 years (only team/org they had played for). Now i can't sleep while knowing i would have to make the phone call to the org DD was no longer going to play for. Friends with the man in charge and really don't like change in general. Made the call and it went well, but know it was a surprise and they were disappointed, as we were not planning on changing. Feel really bad even though i know we are making the right decision based on the information we have right now. May not work out for some reason 6 months from now(can't see the future), but still believe the decision is right. New org has been around for 6-7 years and has 10u through 18u teams. Is this normal, or am i turning into a middle-aged pansy?(wife would argue i have always been a pansy, just now making it into the middle-aged part) DD took a couple of pitching lessons from the young lady that is coaching the team she is not going back with. Worry we are messing up that relationship too. Just seems crazy when I step back and think about this amount of stress over little girl's softball. DD is happy, DW is happy. I'm stressed. Sounds about normal i guess....