Daughter has played up for quite some time. It can be intimidating at times, but it will stretch them as a player. Your team should also be winning about 75% of your scheduled games. If your winning 90+% of your games, you need to find more challenging tournaments (better competition, play up, etc.....). If you are wining 25%, you are playing out of your league. After playing up we found that she was way ahead of girls her age at camps high school tryouts etc....