My daughter is a late start 14U player. She started last year at 12 and has done very well. She is playing on a 14U-B tournament team and holding her own but as happens is making some mistakes and has hit a slump at the plate.
Her coach uses the term "unacceptable" with her and the other girls quite liberally and I am finding that it really upsets both me and my daughter. He will tell them if they strike out that its unacceptable or if they make an error that its unacceptable. Now, I haven't played ball in too many years than I want to mention but I don't ever recall a coach ever telling me that anything I did was unacceptable other than maybe my attitude a time or two.
I want to confront the coach about this but before I do I thought I would get the opinion of you folks to see if I was was off base or if anyone else feels the same way I do.
Her coach uses the term "unacceptable" with her and the other girls quite liberally and I am finding that it really upsets both me and my daughter. He will tell them if they strike out that its unacceptable or if they make an error that its unacceptable. Now, I haven't played ball in too many years than I want to mention but I don't ever recall a coach ever telling me that anything I did was unacceptable other than maybe my attitude a time or two.
I want to confront the coach about this but before I do I thought I would get the opinion of you folks to see if I was was off base or if anyone else feels the same way I do.