DD is currently in what I call "softball limbo". We made the jump from rec to travel last Fall after Allstars. After an unfavorable experience with the team we left after the fall season with the understanding that January/February is a good time to move and tryout for a new team. After the Fall I felt like I had a good feel of the landscape and had a good idea of what teams I wanted DD to play for. After a bunch of tryouts we still don't have a team. Some teams that were intrested in DD were not the teams I thought they were (most had a lot of 02 play downs during the Fall). We declined some offers because we didn't feel the fit was right and DD was turned down from teams we would have really liked to be on. Afraid of not finding the right team we registered back in rec. I just felt it was best that she played something as opposed to nothing at all.
So right now DD is on a really solid rec team with lots of 03 players. We are still actively looking for the "right" TB team. So DD just finished a tryout with a team. Coach is really intrested in DD and asked us to come back and practice on Saturday and play a set of friendlies with them on Sunday. there are a lot of things I really like about this team. The coach is absolutely awsome.
The team on the other hand needs some work for sure. Definitely not the strongest team DD has played on. It is a true 04 team and I can only imagine under this coach that they will improve a lot. With this team DD has tons of opportunities to play where she wants.
A part of me (the competitive side) really wants DD to play for a competitive program, one that is going to challenge and push her to get better. it has been challenging finding a team like that who has a need for a player like DD. Most of those teams right now are set in the catchers and corner positions. Seems like they are mostly looking for Pitchers and middle infield/out fielders. I feel like I just need to get over the competitive thing and focus on the learning possibilities. I feel that if we are patient that this team has a lot of potential if they stay together under this coach come next spring and DD will have a significant contribution to the teams future success.
I'm dwelling overy this decision mostly because I don't want to investing so much money in a team and end up regretting it later or possibly settling on a team just because we currently don't have a team (rec doesn't count, lol).
After Sunday hopefully I will have a more concrete feeling and the decision one way or another won't be so difficult.
Sorry for the soap opera novel I just posted but I just needed to vent and let you guys know where DD is at right now, lol
So right now DD is on a really solid rec team with lots of 03 players. We are still actively looking for the "right" TB team. So DD just finished a tryout with a team. Coach is really intrested in DD and asked us to come back and practice on Saturday and play a set of friendlies with them on Sunday. there are a lot of things I really like about this team. The coach is absolutely awsome.
The team on the other hand needs some work for sure. Definitely not the strongest team DD has played on. It is a true 04 team and I can only imagine under this coach that they will improve a lot. With this team DD has tons of opportunities to play where she wants.
A part of me (the competitive side) really wants DD to play for a competitive program, one that is going to challenge and push her to get better. it has been challenging finding a team like that who has a need for a player like DD. Most of those teams right now are set in the catchers and corner positions. Seems like they are mostly looking for Pitchers and middle infield/out fielders. I feel like I just need to get over the competitive thing and focus on the learning possibilities. I feel that if we are patient that this team has a lot of potential if they stay together under this coach come next spring and DD will have a significant contribution to the teams future success.
I'm dwelling overy this decision mostly because I don't want to investing so much money in a team and end up regretting it later or possibly settling on a team just because we currently don't have a team (rec doesn't count, lol).
After Sunday hopefully I will have a more concrete feeling and the decision one way or another won't be so difficult.
Sorry for the soap opera novel I just posted but I just needed to vent and let you guys know where DD is at right now, lol
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