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Anyway, I am just curious if this is a normal process that developing young pitchers go through?? Is it normal to go through this frustrating phase that we seem to be stuck in?
This is from having my boys coached by others and my coaching girls who are not my DDs:
Please make sure you treat the growth spurt as a benefit. Often it gets translated as 'OMG, you will have to work really hard and it is so much more xxx to worry about. We/you have a lot of rework to do.' With boys, the coaching is: "That height/weight will help you do all of these things (xx, xx, and xx) better. I can't wait to work with you on this and see the results."
Micromanaging the effort is the absolutely wrong thing to do with someone who has received negative feedback. When I watch coaches sometimes I think the only interactions are pointing out flaws, don'ts, and things that need to be fixed. Some things are better left alone without adult fixes. Let the player come to the fix by watching others, videos of others, games, or through trial and error, with the coach asking/prodding with simple questions. The player needs to know it is about an action they can craft and own, not that they entirely stink for who they are or what they are going through.