
Originally Posted by
ang4yanks
Coach:
If she is experiencing pain, something is wrong with her mechanics. My daughter has pitched for four years, practices out in the yard 3x-4x week, plays travel ball (usually 5 game guarantee, but team usually wins some and plays 6 or 7) and usually pitches 3 out of 6 or 7 games in addition to some relief innings, and she has never complained of arm or shoulder pain. She may be working too hard on speed and throwing with all arm instead of pushing off with her legs. If she doesn't practice, she may not really want it. Pitching is a huge investment in time and money...if it is not driven by passion, she may wind up injured. Robin (my athlete) asks my husband to come out and catch for her. He never demands or pushes her. We had to deliberately reverse that. Now every week she submits a schedule to him on which days she wants to practice and what pitches or drills she needs to work on. She self-evaluates her performance from the weekend (she had to be taught self-evaluation, too). The sooner you give her more responsibility for her sport, the better athlete she will become. I have watched parents struggle with their child's position, but we can't go out there and do it for them. The key is passion and the coaching (whose job it is to help an athlete tap into that passion and bring them to their fullest potential). It also helped to learn my daughter's learning style and what coaching style best suits her. She is a visual and kinesthetic learner. She learns best when standing behind her instructor and going through the motions while watching her. Bill Cowher (former coach of Pittsburgh Steelers) once said, "You coach the athlete, then the sport. Some athletes need to face adversity and some need words of encouragement."
It may not be the position she is playing, but she may discover her passion in another sport. 14 is a great time, through school opportunities, to discover other sports. My daughter also loves volleyball, as long as it doesn't interfere with her softball :-)
Ang