
Originally Posted by
CobraAssist
I, personally, do not have a money tree in my back yard. Both DD's have had a few lessons, and that is mainly due to both of us getting frustrated with one another, and thinking that an outsider would help. In both instances it did, but in the past 18 months, I have spent as much time as possible researching and learning as much about this game as I can so that I can be our own private instructor. Both have responded well to Coach Dad. However, there are some that are not as eager. And, that's ok. Not everyone has to be a softball addict. I think that there could be more involvement by Highschools and Highschool players to be quite honest with you. Even some players that just graduated from Highschool. I graduated from Highschool, and while I was going to school, was a Graduate Assistant at my highschool coaching Football and Baseball. I learned SO MUCH. I know that highschools put on little camps, and that's nice, but I don't think it's enough.
Probably one of the biggest beefs I have right now is with a particular highschool coach. Our Travel Ball team is part of an organization ranging from 18u Gold to 8u (go ahead and laugh, it's ok). Our particular team is a first year 10u team, and we've had some difficulty making the transition (if you've read other posts, you know what I'm talking about). The 12u team is coached by a very successful highschool coach who's daughter has already signed a commitment to attend one of the 8 Universities that will be in OKC this next weekend. Needless to say, the guy knows what he's doing. Recently, during one of our practices, he was sitting behind the backstop talking to my wife about how wasteful our practices are, and how our team will never get better like that. He then turned, and walked away. Why didn't he walk out on the field and talk to all of us (the coaches). After my wife told me that, I had a hard time not throwing out some nasty email to the guy, but that's not me. Our hearts are all in the right place. We are geniuinely trying to help make these girls better, but Mr. High and Mighty would rather just stare and shake his head, than help us make them successful. Just a prime example of an opportunity that wasn't taken advantage of, and a chance for our girls to get some FREE professional instruction, or at the very least, for the coaches to get some schooling from someone that gets paid to do what we happily do for FREE. Gotta have the people that have the knowledge be more willing to share said knowledge, and not charge and arm and a leg to do so. I know that Private Coaches make their living that way, but if given the opportunity, share the wealth. This problem goes farther than just softball. Where have all the good people on this Earth gone?
I'm off my soap box now. Sorry if I hi-jacked the thread, but I thought it did pertain somewhat.
Josh