
Originally Posted by
SnocatzDad
If you can get a decent non parent coach for the team that would probably double your chances of success. Sources for that might be local former college players, HS coaches. If like most start up travel teams you have to stick with a parent coach, if at all possible make the head coach/manager not be a pitcher's dad. If the head coach manager is a pitcher's dad your chances of success are about half what they would be otherwise. IME parents of the team will always question when the head coach pitches his own daughter. They might accept their kid being benched without question from a non-parent coach or even a parent coach of a non-pitcher, but it's hard for people to trust when it comes to thier kids.
I'm sure your thinking not me, not my parents, I'm blessed with a great group. Here's the reallity the season starts with Mom and Dad saying "I completely trust the coach", a month later it's "I trust the coach" a month later it's (after a long pause)"i trust the coach", by the end of the season it's "we're leaving this guy is an idiot". And it won't be based on whether the coach was or wasn't an idiot, it will be based on the growing tension on having to trust someone else to make decisions on their kid when the coaches kid is also on the team.
IME "we're leaving this guy is an idiot" is usually followed by either A. hitting the tryout circuit, or B. Trying to start a new travel team around their daughter.