- Jun 1, 2015
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I've had 8 practices for the upcoming summer season, counting today. Of these 8, I have a pair of sisters (call them S who is 17 and C who is 14) who have showed up 3 (C) and 2 (S) times. They come from a northern community about 15 minutes away, and S plays varsity softball (so generally if S doesn't come, C doesn't come because of transportation).
Today's practice - these two were not in attendance. S was out of town and told me ahead of time. C messaged our group text at 12pm (practice was 11am-1pm) saying she was "helping her grandma move". I explained I wanted earlier knowledge if something like this was happening, because 2 unexcused absences is a 1-game benching for me (and I'm rather lenient with excuses for the most part). A little birdie (one of my parents whose daughters play for me) texted me saying that the "moving grandmother" line was a lie, that she was at home on Snapchat the entire time. The parent stated his daughter has screenshots with the timestamps. (for the record, he's not trying to be a snitch or for his girls - he legitimately says where the bear squats in the woods 100%.)
Here is my thoughts about my next practice - should she attend (which she should), I plan to pull her aside privately and talk to her about the matter. If she fesses up and admits to the lying, she will have 2 options: a.) Apologize to the ENTIRE team for what she has done, rejoin practice and earn her playing time back, or b.) Be dismissed from the team. My team last year walked all over me, and I want to set a precedent that this type of behavior will NOT be tolerated.
What are the thoughts of the board? Too harsh? Too light? Apologies for the long thread.
Today's practice - these two were not in attendance. S was out of town and told me ahead of time. C messaged our group text at 12pm (practice was 11am-1pm) saying she was "helping her grandma move". I explained I wanted earlier knowledge if something like this was happening, because 2 unexcused absences is a 1-game benching for me (and I'm rather lenient with excuses for the most part). A little birdie (one of my parents whose daughters play for me) texted me saying that the "moving grandmother" line was a lie, that she was at home on Snapchat the entire time. The parent stated his daughter has screenshots with the timestamps. (for the record, he's not trying to be a snitch or for his girls - he legitimately says where the bear squats in the woods 100%.)
Here is my thoughts about my next practice - should she attend (which she should), I plan to pull her aside privately and talk to her about the matter. If she fesses up and admits to the lying, she will have 2 options: a.) Apologize to the ENTIRE team for what she has done, rejoin practice and earn her playing time back, or b.) Be dismissed from the team. My team last year walked all over me, and I want to set a precedent that this type of behavior will NOT be tolerated.
What are the thoughts of the board? Too harsh? Too light? Apologies for the long thread.