I have two DDs, 14 and 16, and my first piece of advice is to not butt heads. In other words, if she doesn't want to practice softball, take advice from you, etc., you drop it. It's not worth damaging your relationship over softball, which you will if you force.
This, however, does not mean that you don't encourage her or offer her opportunities to improve. These are just suggestions and not commands.
When I coach my DDs within a team situation, I often have another coach give her the advice that I would like to give. It seems to me that when it's coming from me she would take it as criticism. If it comes from another coach it is advice.
I have backed way off on strongly suggesting to my DDs what they should do concerning softball. The interesting thing is that they seem more self-motivated and do more.
I'm my daughters asst. coach for a little league team. My daughter is one of the top 3 on the team. She is 11. How do you guys coach and then try to instruct your daughter at home? We seem to always butt heads as she does not want to listen and gives me a hard time.
I'm my daughters asst. coach for a little league team. My daughter is one of the top 3 on the team. She is 11. How do you guys coach and then try to instruct your daughter at home? We seem to always butt heads as she does not want to listen and gives me a hard time.