Hiya folks - I find myself in need of a reality check. This post will be long, so bear with me, grab a frosty beverage of your choice and grant me your wisdom.
To set the stage, you need to know that this is my 7th year coaching rec, and my 1st year as league commish. We have 68 rec teams, over 650 girls. I have coached All Stars the past 3 seasons (last season I left DD off the team because we had better players and I could only select 2 from mine).
Our All Stars are shared with another league that is about 1/3 our size. Any rules conflicts tend to be resolved in favor of the other league - I don't know why, just works out that way, probably due to inertia from the previous commish.
We generally have 4 8U teams, 4 10U teams, and 2 12U teams. This year we were lacking a coach in 8U, so only 3 teams there. We require the girls to commit to playing 3 of the 4 weekends. Our All Star season runs concurrently with our regular season for 3 weekends, with a 4th and final weekend after the regular season ends. This means that we pick All Stars 2 or 3 weeks into the season, try to squeeze practices in on already full fields, and generally create a lot of tension in the league. None of the coaches and very few parents like the process. I don't like it, but I was too late to the position and lacked a full enough understanding to make any changes for this season.
This season was a bigger disaster than usual, mainly due to me being late on asking for All Star selections. I had planned on holding tryouts instead, but that fell through due to poor planning on my end - just ran out of time to organize it. We had so many late selections that I just finished the rosters yesterday and our 1st games are Sunday.
In 12U, we had 32 players selected, not including the selections from my team. I had 2 teams offer 1 selection each, and both only did it to give the girl the experience - both coaches confided in me that of the girls available to play, none were of AS skill.
The Issue:
For myself as coach, I am in a very lucky position this season. I have 8 players whom I've coached for several years, who all asked to play for me. Of the girls I added to round out the roster are 2 more very good players and 2 mediocre players. I have 11 6th graders and 1 5th grader. We are undefeated so far, with our only close call being our last game when the girls were just playing flat. That was also the first game we gave up double digits, which is almost unheard of in this league. I have 8 legitimate All Star girls. As a coach, I feel that picking 2 or 3 would be unfair to the ones not picked that are deserving. I understand that is the nature of the game, but I also understand that there are options, and that AS is voluntary (and an added expense).
So, I offered my parents the option: I and my AC could select 2-3 All Stars, or we could forego AS and take the entire team to a post season rec All Star tournament. The parents unanimously voted for the post season tournament. It is being paid for by us, no league funds.
Here is an email I received from a parent/assistant coach:
"I understand you are taking your OYAA Rec League softball team to play in a rec/all star tournament the weekend after the Gold tournament and not sending anyone from your team to participate in the OYAA Gold Division All Star Team(s).
You know what our girls are up against when they go to this tournament: due to the current OYAA selection process, we are teams of mismatched talent, with minimal practice together, playing against true A & B teams from the Dublin league. In our league, we have teams that have one, if that, girl that is a legitimate league all star and they are required to send two girls. Other teams have multiple girls that can play at that level and they are forced to omit some due to the 2-3 player limit. I was all for the tryout process as initially announced and thought OYAA was on the right track, but that was pulled back for timing/staffing reasons from what I understand. Once you made that decision to return to the past format, I don't understand how you legitimize playing outside of it.
You have a team that has at least five girls that are current/former all stars and you have not made them available to the process you decided on. I fail to understand how, as league commissioner, you do not support the league activities under your control and actually hinder the girls' chances for success and enjoyment. If there is a better tournament out there, which wouldn't take much, why not offer that to the league? I'm all for doing what is best for the girls and maximizing their opportunities and enjoyment of the game, but this is a rec league and cannot be run as a one for some rather than a one for all. Disappointing to say the least."
Thoughts? I know you'll have questions on details, ask away.
To set the stage, you need to know that this is my 7th year coaching rec, and my 1st year as league commish. We have 68 rec teams, over 650 girls. I have coached All Stars the past 3 seasons (last season I left DD off the team because we had better players and I could only select 2 from mine).
Our All Stars are shared with another league that is about 1/3 our size. Any rules conflicts tend to be resolved in favor of the other league - I don't know why, just works out that way, probably due to inertia from the previous commish.
We generally have 4 8U teams, 4 10U teams, and 2 12U teams. This year we were lacking a coach in 8U, so only 3 teams there. We require the girls to commit to playing 3 of the 4 weekends. Our All Star season runs concurrently with our regular season for 3 weekends, with a 4th and final weekend after the regular season ends. This means that we pick All Stars 2 or 3 weeks into the season, try to squeeze practices in on already full fields, and generally create a lot of tension in the league. None of the coaches and very few parents like the process. I don't like it, but I was too late to the position and lacked a full enough understanding to make any changes for this season.
This season was a bigger disaster than usual, mainly due to me being late on asking for All Star selections. I had planned on holding tryouts instead, but that fell through due to poor planning on my end - just ran out of time to organize it. We had so many late selections that I just finished the rosters yesterday and our 1st games are Sunday.
In 12U, we had 32 players selected, not including the selections from my team. I had 2 teams offer 1 selection each, and both only did it to give the girl the experience - both coaches confided in me that of the girls available to play, none were of AS skill.
The Issue:
For myself as coach, I am in a very lucky position this season. I have 8 players whom I've coached for several years, who all asked to play for me. Of the girls I added to round out the roster are 2 more very good players and 2 mediocre players. I have 11 6th graders and 1 5th grader. We are undefeated so far, with our only close call being our last game when the girls were just playing flat. That was also the first game we gave up double digits, which is almost unheard of in this league. I have 8 legitimate All Star girls. As a coach, I feel that picking 2 or 3 would be unfair to the ones not picked that are deserving. I understand that is the nature of the game, but I also understand that there are options, and that AS is voluntary (and an added expense).
So, I offered my parents the option: I and my AC could select 2-3 All Stars, or we could forego AS and take the entire team to a post season rec All Star tournament. The parents unanimously voted for the post season tournament. It is being paid for by us, no league funds.
Here is an email I received from a parent/assistant coach:
"I understand you are taking your OYAA Rec League softball team to play in a rec/all star tournament the weekend after the Gold tournament and not sending anyone from your team to participate in the OYAA Gold Division All Star Team(s).
You know what our girls are up against when they go to this tournament: due to the current OYAA selection process, we are teams of mismatched talent, with minimal practice together, playing against true A & B teams from the Dublin league. In our league, we have teams that have one, if that, girl that is a legitimate league all star and they are required to send two girls. Other teams have multiple girls that can play at that level and they are forced to omit some due to the 2-3 player limit. I was all for the tryout process as initially announced and thought OYAA was on the right track, but that was pulled back for timing/staffing reasons from what I understand. Once you made that decision to return to the past format, I don't understand how you legitimize playing outside of it.
You have a team that has at least five girls that are current/former all stars and you have not made them available to the process you decided on. I fail to understand how, as league commissioner, you do not support the league activities under your control and actually hinder the girls' chances for success and enjoyment. If there is a better tournament out there, which wouldn't take much, why not offer that to the league? I'm all for doing what is best for the girls and maximizing their opportunities and enjoyment of the game, but this is a rec league and cannot be run as a one for some rather than a one for all. Disappointing to say the least."
Thoughts? I know you'll have questions on details, ask away.